How To Sell Your House Despite Those Nasty Neighbors

You’ve scrubbed every surface, trimmed the hedges to perfection, baked some cookies to make your home smell warm and inviting, but there’s a problem.


Every time someone comes to view the house you’re trying to sell, the first thing they notice is the unkempt mess next door. 

If you’re selling your home, you have enough to worry about without adding troublesome neighbors to the mix, but sometimes life just isn’t fair. Luckily, there are plenty of ways you can smooth things out with your neighbors and get back to more important things—like selling your home.

  • Be Nice, But Firm
    When bringing a complaint to your neighbor’s attention, it’s always best to start out by being calm and friendly, but also firm. Approach your neighbors as if they have no idea that they’re causing a problem, and work from there to find a solution.

    Taking legal action should never be anything but a last resort, partly because it can make your relationship with your neighbors even tenser, but also because courts seldom provide a timely solution. You don’t want to be tied up in legal wranglings for months while your house sits on the market.

  • Noise Problems
    Noise complaints are the most common problems that cause tension between neighbors. Again, set out with a friendly demeanor, and assume that your neighbors haven’t realized how much of a headache they’ve been causing. Stop by and have a chat about the issue, and offer to work together to reach a solution.

    Visit again if the noise continues to be a problem. If the noise persists, follow up with a written warning (in as friendly a manner as possible). You might also want to enclose a copy of the local noise ordinance. Threaten legal action only as a last resort if the written warning doesn’t work.

  • Upkeep Issues
    When your neighbors don’t take care of their property, it doesn’t show your house in the best light. In this case, you do have another option if a friendly request to make improvements doesn’t generate any results.

    This problem can often be alleviated by offering your own services to clean up the neighbor’s property. If you don’t have the time to tackle it yourself, offer to have a professional come by to cut the grass, pack up any trash, and generally make your neighbors’ property a little easier on the eyes.

  • Full Disclosure
    If there’s a problem with your neighbor, you may be wondering what your responsibility is when it comes to disclosing the issue to potential buyers. Obviously, you don’t want to scare buyers away, but you most likely have a legal obligation to tell prospective buyers about ongoing disputes with neighbors. When in doubt, always disclose.

Selling your home is hard work, so don’t let pesky neighbors hold you back. From noise problems to unruly lawns, patching things up with the folks next door will make the process of selling your home infinitely easier.

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Neil Gortler

CBR, SRES - Licensed Real Estate Salesperson
Phone: 516.849.5895 | [email protected] 

As an experienced professional Neil will do the leg work, keeping you up-to-date with new listings and the various market conditions that may impact the home purchase process. Sellers can also benefit from his skills in finance, negotiation, contractual agreements, and RE marketing. Call today and allow Neil to guide you through the complexities of buying or selling your home, eliminating hassles, and stress. 

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